He disputed several claims and sought a share of certain marital assets.

He also asked to retrieve belongings from the apartment.

“Do we have to fight about everything?” Iris asked.

“No,” Celia said.

“We should be firm where it matters and practical where we can.”

They prepared an inventory.

Iris wanted no argument about the television, the dining chairs, or a set of luggage Garrett had purchased.

She did want to protect the premarital apartment, preserve her retirement accounts to the extent allowed by law, and obtain a clear resolution of any debts created without her authorization.