It contained imported chocolates, expensive sweaters, four engraved watches, and a letter that began, I hope we can put misunderstandings behind us.

I returned the watches and thanked her for the thought.

The children kept a few treats after I checked the ingredients.

Then I wrote back.

There has been no misunderstanding about the pregnancy.

You received and withheld information.

Please don’t ask the children to make this easier for you.

If you would like a relationship with them someday, begin by being honest with their father and respecting our boundaries.