Loving Your Child Is an Instinct; Shielding Him From the Consequences of What He Did to Another Human Being Is Something Else Entirely — I Learned the Difference at Sixty, at the Door of a Chicken Coop
After my husband died, Brock had taken total control of the ranch — fired the workers who’d been with us for years, grew possessive, began speaking to Natasha as though she were unpaid help rather than his wife.
One evening I had caught him gripping her arm, hard, simply because she had called her mother on the phone.
We had argued about it, bitterly.
And then I had done the thing I have had to forgive myself for slowly and incompletely ever since: I told myself it was not my place, that I was grieving and exhausted and that distance would be good for my health, and I got on a plane, and I left her there with him.
I did not cause what came after.