The bank helped me review security and access.

I changed the credentials that needed changing and checked for permissions I did not recognize.

We did not declare every account compromised because one transfer had arrived.

I felt compromised anyway.

Someone had used the place where I paid bills and saved for Lily to deliver a warning.

At work, I tried to answer an email about a project as though I were still a person who could keep ordinary things in order.

Then a coworker came to my desk.