No kid, no ex, no distractions.

I did not learn those words that day in the office.

I learned them later, when they could properly be disclosed to me and explained in context.

Even then, the sentence was examined for what it actually established.

It showed a plan to move my daughter without the authorization I had been asked to believe existed, linked to pressure for my signature.

It did not establish every possible intention people might imagine about where she would have been taken.