The first major disagreement over the lease came when Jessica called the management company demanding a reduction in rent because the property had changed owners.

The manager explained that a sale did not automatically alter the rent specified in an existing lease.

Jessica asked whether she could pay the old landlord directly instead.

The answer, of course, was no.

A few days later, she showed up at my door unannounced.

I let her in, but I didn’t offer to negotiate from the doorway.

We sat at the dining table.

“You’ve turned my family upside down,” she said.