The new year brought a letter from Oakridge Estates addressed to me.

It was a polite follow-up about the January placement Colin and Jessica had reserved.

The deposit was refundable, and the facility wanted to know whether I wished to schedule a tour.

I called the director myself.

“I won’t be moving in,” I said.

“But I’d like to ask you something.

How do you make sure prospective residents actually want to live there?”

She sounded genuinely troubled when I explained the circumstances.