My Daughter Was 15 When She Finally Looked Me in the Eye and Whispered, “I Don’t Tell Dad When I’m Hurting Anymore. He Says I Only Do It for Attention.” The Next Afternoon, I Checked Her Out of School and Drove Her to the Hospital Without a Word to My Husband. Halfway Through the Scan, the Technician Went Completely Quiet.
Since I didn’t want to start another draining argument before leaving for the office, I swallowed the rest of my questions and walked out the front door.
That silence turned into the biggest regret of my life, because Gregory had never taken our daughter to some small walk-in clinic for a quick five-minute exam.
He had brought her into the emergency department at St.
Mark Memorial Hospital after the school nurse called him while I was away at an out-of-town work conference.
The attending doctor had ordered initial blood work and found a worrying abnormality in her pelvic area that needed prompt follow-up imaging.
Rather than booking the required ultrasound, Gregory had driven our daughter home and told her the emergency doctors had decided she was overreacting to minor period cramps.