Medical professionals received what was relevant.

Daniel did not ask her to repeat the wrist incident every time a new document appeared.

When relatives tried to reach her directly, we followed the rules set around communication.

And at home, she was allowed to be sixteen.

She complained about homework.

Hated hotel eggs.

Mocked Susan’s sweet pickles.

Argued that a kitchen appliance advertised as “time saving” wasn’t time saving if you had to wash it.