Before leaving, she asked me not to disappear because distance made it easier.

“I promise I’ll answer you.”

It was a promise more useful than saying we would never misunderstand one another again.

We would misunderstand sometimes.

We would have different lives, busy days, and things we did not yet know how to say.

We could still ask.

She hugged me without waiting for the moment to become more formal.

Then she left us to make the decision that belonged to our marriage.