I sat beside his chair until the nurse came, and for those minutes we managed not to argue.

PART 11

The hardest conversation of all came one night when Harper asked why her grandfather hadn’t come to her mother’s funeral.

We were sitting on her bedroom floor sorting photographs into a scrapbook.

She had chosen blue paper for Ryan and yellow paper for Paige because she said those were their favorite colors.

“Did he not know?” she asked.

“He knew.”