I asked questions whenever I needed to.

I no longer felt ashamed of not knowing how wealthy families handled paperwork, because asking was how I protected the child in my care.

Natalie and Brandon became part of our life gradually.

Natalie called on Sundays, sometimes just to ask about a spelling test or whether Harper’s cough had improved.

Brandon came to two school concerts and cheered too loudly both times.

Harper told him he needed to learn indoor applause.