Later, she offered to wash the dishes, and we talked long after Ryan had fallen asleep on the sofa.

That was the Paige I knew: careful about other people’s feelings, stubborn when it came to Ryan, and almost fiercely private about her own childhood.

I had never asked why she called her father by his first name the few times she mentioned him.

At the time, I thought giving her space was kindness.

Now I wondered how much of her life she had kept hidden because the questions hurt too much to answer.

“Tell me what you know about the ring,” I said.