Hall didn’t tell me every word Grace had said.

She explained that her job was to give Grace privacy while keeping me informed about what I needed to support her.

“She has been trying to manage adult uncertainty,” Dr.

Hall said.

“One important thing you can do is make ordinary routines predictable.”

We created a calendar for school, soccer, library afternoons, and time with Derek.

The first time Grace saw his name written on Thursday and Sunday, she frowned.

“What if he doesn’t show up?”