Lauren advised me to preserve the communications, use my independent funds for immediate needs, and let counsel deal with custody questions through the court.

I did not answer the insults.

I sent one calm message stating that Hazel was safe, that I would facilitate appropriate communication through attorneys, and that urgent health information would be shared.

Then I turned my phone over and helped Monica make breakfast.

Hazel dropped a spoon on the floor three times and laughed each time I picked it up.

It was the smallest sound in the world.