He cooked me dinner.

He told our friends, in a sad and patient voice, that I was “emotionally confused” after the trauma of my accident.

And Sylvia came over every single afternoon to sit in my living room and remind me, gently, how very lucky I was that her son had not been arrested over what she called a silly misunderstanding.

And then, once he judged me sufficiently softened, the pressure came back.

“We need to refinance,” Derek said one evening, setting a fresh stack of documents on the table, as though the last stack had not left me in a hospital.