My husband files for divorce, and my 6-year old son asks the judge: ‘May I show you something that Mom doesn’t know about, Your Honor?’ The judge nodded. When the video started, the entire courtroom froze in silence.
I explained that it had been kept as evidence under court procedures, not posted for entertainment.
I promised I would not show it to friends or family as a way of proving I had been right.
He looked relieved.
“It was my video,” he said.
“I didn’t make it for everyone.”
I thanked him for telling me.
We discussed privacy, consent, and the difference between asking an adult for help and trying to solve an adult problem alone.
I told him he could always speak to a trusted teacher, counselor, or advocate if someone asked him to keep a frightening secret.