My husband files for divorce, and my 6-year old son asks the judge: ‘May I show you something that Mom doesn’t know about, Your Honor?’ The judge nodded. When the video started, the entire courtroom froze in silence.
If he did something wrong, would I still love him?
I had answered each question as patiently as I could, assuming that he was absorbing adult tension he could not explain.
Once he asked if people could tell the truth and still get everyone angry at them.
I told him yes, sometimes, but that was never the child’s job to fix.
He looked relieved and frightened at the same time.
I should have understood then.