My husband files for divorce, and my 6-year old son asks the judge: ‘May I show you something that Mom doesn’t know about, Your Honor?’ The judge nodded. When the video started, the entire courtroom froze in silence.
She checked arithmetic, grouped counterparties, and identified places where I needed formal disclosure rather than assumptions.
“You have enough to ask real questions,” she told me.
“Not enough to decide every answer.”
I appreciated that warning.
My marriage was collapsing and I wanted certainty more than sleep.
Yet a spreadsheet cannot tell you why a husband stops listening to his wife.
It cannot explain why a child comes downstairs one morning already apologizing.
The first traceable lease payment linked to Chloe’s apartment appeared eight months before the petition.