My husband files for divorce, and my 6-year old son asks the judge: ‘May I show you something that Mom doesn’t know about, Your Honor?’ The judge nodded. When the video started, the entire courtroom froze in silence.
Go back to bed.”
The next morning Noah asked if I could take him to the park.
We sat on a bench while he watched a red kite caught in a tree.
He asked why grown-ups cared so much about being right.
I said sometimes people confused being right with feeling safe.
He thought about that, then asked whether a video could remember something accurately even if people disagreed.
I told him a video might show part of what happened, but it could miss what happened before and after.