My Husband Told Me to “Handle It Yourself” While I Was in Labor So He Could Stay at His Mother’s Birthday—Then I Made One Phone Call
Credit.
Savings.
Professional advice.
And yes, a family safety net if catastrophe truly arrived.
I would be dishonest to pretend Dad’s existence did not reduce fear.
It did.
Privilege matters even when unused.
But I also refused to let his wealth erase Brandon’s consequences or my own financial reality.