I want to describe how a woman gets pushed out of her own company, because it did not happen the way you might picture, with one dramatic betrayal.

It happened the way water shapes stone, so slowly that no single moment felt like the crime.

First it was kindness. You’ve worked so hard, Laura, let me take that off your plate. Who argues with being cared for?

So I let him take the investor meetings, because he was better in a room, and it seemed like a fair division.

Then it was efficiency. It doesn’t make sense for both of us to be cc’d on everything. So the emails narrowed, and then stopped, and I found myself learning about decisions after they’d been made.