They end when the person who was hurt no longer needs to hear it.

That night in our bedroom, Gavin called me a penniless parasite.

When I think of him now, I do not think about my bank account, or my father’s name, or any of it.

I think about him, and I understand, at last, that the most dangerous poverty in that house was never in my accounts.

It was the kind he carried, all along, deep inside himself.