My Mother-in-Law Saw My Newborn Daughter’s Arm and Went Pale—Then She Told Us We Couldn’t Keep Her
It wasn’t.
Because she eventually understood why it was wrong.
At first, Beatrice apologized by saying:
“I was trying to protect you.”
That apology never worked.
Protection is not a magical word that turns hurtful behavior into love.
Later she learned to say:
“I projected my fear onto your baby.”