The moment I stopped, the performance could not continue, because there had never been anything underneath it but my money and my labor and my silence.

That is the thing about carrying people who do not know they are being carried: they mistake your strength for their own, right up until you set them down, and then they discover, all at once and to their horror, that they cannot stand.

I set my family down.

I did not push them over; I simply stopped holding them up, which I had every right to do, which I should have done years earlier.

And they fell, not because I knocked them down, but because they had never, in truth, been standing on their own at all.