I paid for the groceries.

I bought the high-speed internet package.

I covered my father’s heart medication.

I spent my weekends deep-cleaning the apartment.

I did it because I was grateful, because they had taken us in, because that is what you do for family.

But slowly, so slowly I never saw it happening, my voluntary help curdled into unspoken expectation.

If I bought milk, my mother complained there were no eggs.

If I paid the electric bill, she asked why I hadn’t covered the gas.