My Parents Abandoned My Grandmother at a Nursing Home and Forged the Deed to Her House — So I Drove 190 Miles to Bring Her Home
And he was not entirely wrong about the surface of her.
She was mild, and agreeable, and she did keep a nice house.
What he missed — what he could not see, because he had never had occasion to see it — was that her mildness was a choice, not a limitation, and that beneath it lay a will of absolute iron that she simply had never before had any reason to deploy against him.
He mistook the peace of a woman who had never needed to fight for the weakness of a woman who could not.