The money lost through the fraud had belonged to people whose recovery could not be treated as a convenient source of compensation for our family.

Hannah’s attorney explained that distinction early.

“There may be assets,” she said.

“That doesn’t mean every asset is available to you.

There are victims, creditors, and separate legal processes.”

Hannah nodded.

“I don’t want someone else’s retirement.”

I was proud of her for saying it, then ashamed that pride was my first response.