And I still felt my stomach tighten when my parents suggested I’d disappointed them.

Daniel had noticed that habit.

Before his illness, he once told me that my family had an unusual way of making every conflict about my tone.

If I questioned something, they complained that I sounded disrespectful.

If I stayed quiet, they assumed I agreed.

If I refused, I was ungrateful.

I used to defend them.

“They mean well,” I’d say.