We discussed Cedarline’s records and the written permission I had given Trevor when he and Kristen moved into the property.

I had called it a gift in conversation, and he had believed I meant ownership.

Howard pointed out that our family had created an avoidable ambiguity by never discussing the arrangement plainly.

That did not excuse violence or fraud.

It did mean a decent lawyer might ask uncomfortable questions about promises I had made.

‘Let them ask,’ I said.

‘I can admit my mistakes without pretending his were harmless.’

After the call I sat by the window until the porch light came on.