Brenda and I planned it around their comfort, not ours.

We told the children they shared a father, that grown-up relationships could be complicated, and that they could ask questions whenever they wished.

Liam brought a small cardboard airplane he had made.

Sienna brought a stuffed elephant almost as large as her torso.

For the first ten minutes they stood a few feet apart, shyly studying one another.

“Is that your plane?” Sienna asked.