Two days later, a formal settlement proposal arrived from his attorney.

Solomon offered — generously, he clearly believed — to drop all claims to the house, provided that he was granted full primary custody of Theo.

And, as though our son were a line item in the same negotiation, he also wanted half my personal savings, the family SUV, and a large lump sum for his alleged improvements to the property.

I called him directly, and for the first time my voice shook, not with fear but with a cold and total rage.

“Are you seriously offering to trade my father’s house — which was never yours — in exchange for full custody of our son?”