My Son Was Told to Keep a Secret So His Father Could Betray Us — I Made Sure He Never Had to Carry It Again
“Theo,” I said, into his hair.
“Listen to me, because this is important.
You didn’t do anything wrong.
Do you hear me?
Nothing.
Telling me was exactly the right thing to do.
And I want you to remember something forever: if any grown-up, ever, asks you to keep a secret that makes you feel scared, or weird, or sad — you can always, always tell me, and you will never, ever be in trouble for it.
That is a promise.” I felt his small body loosen against mine, felt some knot that had been in him for weeks begin, slightly, to come undone.