My Surgeon Husband Worked Five Floors Below Me While I Fought Sepsis for 30 Days—When He Said, “I Was Too Busy,” I Put My Wedding Ring on the Hospital Report He Never Knew I Had

Then eventually for himself.

He wrote through attorneys that he had begun counseling focused on:

Work identity.

Perfectionism.

Family modeling.

Emotional avoidance.

I did not ask for reports.

His therapy was not evidence in divorce.