Finances, medical records, the major decisions of their lives: all of it was laid out now in the open, in the light, where secrets could not grow.

And in Martha’s home there was a new rule, spoken plainly and treated as non-negotiable, and every person who lived or visited there came to know it.

If someone says they are in pain, no one gets to decide for them whether they are exaggerating.

No one gets to weigh it, or minimize it, or wait to see if it goes away on its own.

We do not start from doubt.