Not a joint one — my name was not on any account, David, I’ve checked, I have the paperwork.

When I needed money for the house, I asked your mother, because your mother had the household money, because you sent it to her.

“For three years I asked my mother-in-law for grocery money.

That was the arrangement.

That was normal.

Everybody in this family thought that was normal, including me, and I have spent four years in therapy on the question of how that became normal.”