“But I don’t want you counting on a bank to reverse a transaction merely because the purpose was wrong.

Our strategy must be grounded in the documents, your marital financial circumstances, and applicable law.”

I was disappointed.

Part of me wanted a button someone could press that would return every stolen dollar to the account.

“So what can we do?”

“We can pursue a full financial picture.

We can negotiate restitution through a written agreement.

We can investigate whether any misrepresentation occurred.