“Don’t ask me to change what the page says.”

Derek offered to take time off and help with childcare.

He said he could bring bread, milk, and other things she needed.

At first, that sounded like the solution to the problem she had just listed.

“He’s trying to help,” she said.

“He may be offering help.

The restrictions still need following.”

I could not determine from his tone whether he meant the offer generously or as a way back into the arrangement.