It required no explanation of the earlier injuries and no decision about which adult should be believed.

When I spoke to the mother afterward, she asked whether she could undo the restrictions if Derek apologized.

“That is a question for the people administering them,” I said.

“But you shouldn’t plan tonight around hoping he understands.”

She took out the contact page.

“I want him to understand.”

“I know.”

“I want the help back.”