The settings were preserved, then changes were coordinated with the safety staff so she did not have to improvise them while worrying about his reaction.

She changed the access she controlled with assistance.

Staff explained that turning off one setting was not a guarantee about every account, device, or saved password.

“What if I miss one?”

“Then tell us when you notice it.

We check it.

You don’t need to explain the whole phone by yourself.”

That was an answer she could use.