And I said: “She’s the woman who held her down.

Being related to somebody isn’t a credential, Mitchell.

It’s a fact about biology, and it doesn’t come with visiting rights.”

He said, “I lost everybody.”

And I said the only genuinely cruel thing I said in that entire two years, and I have never taken it back and I have never entirely forgiven myself for it either.

“You didn’t lose them in one night.