Park helped me — that goes to every school, every camp, every new teacher, every year, and which says, in plain language and without any of the story in it: This child has a documented history relating to an accusation of theft.

Do not conduct group searches in her presence.

Do not ask her whether she took something.

If something is missing, tell her directly and immediately that she is not being asked about it.

Contact her mother the same day.

It is four sentences and it has never once been queried.