I remembered none of that clearly.

The thought of a housekeeper and a three-year-old doing what the adults at the table refused to do nearly broke me.

Eliza slid the handwritten note across the table.

It was addressed to Piper, but she asked me to decide whether and when to share it.

In careful handwriting, she told my daughter that she had been brave to ask for help and that grown-ups had a responsibility to listen.

I folded the note and put it in my bag.