He had to drag her, bleeding and barely alive, out of the chaos while soldiers were killing people around them.

He survived, and she survived, but the experience of Sand Creek was as traumatic as any combat veteran’s worst experience — the betrayal was complete, the violence was total, and the personal connection to the victims was absolute.

He survived Sand Creek.

He continued to lead.

He continued to seek peace.

He brought his wounded wife with him as he resumed the diplomatic work that he believed was his responsibility.

The personal costs continued.