And then Odile stood up, which is not how it usually goes, and took the microphone from her sister, and said she wanted to say one thing before the cake.

I have the video.

Manny’s uncle filmed it.

It is four minutes and eleven seconds and I have watched it more times than I am going to admit.

She said:

“I’m going to do something slightly strange and then we’ll get on with it and there’s cake.

“A lot of you in this room know my family’s story.

Some of you have known it for years.