She ran that house.

She did it well and she has never once complained about it and she is, at twenty-six, a person who cannot sit still in a room where something needs doing.

Teddy got the least of me of any of them and has the least complicated relationship with me of any of them, which I do not understand and have stopped trying to.

Ines and Solveig had each other, which turns out to be an enormous amount, and they came through it more or less intact and are the two of my children who are most normal about all of this.