He had been building a file on her since the day she left.

He was not, incidentally, unhinged about it.

That is what made him effective.

He never raised his voice in a courtroom.

He was, according to two separate professionals who were involved, the single most cooperative parent either of them had dealt with.

She told me one story about the marriage and I am going to put it in, because it is the only one she ever told me and because she told it to explain why she had no evidence of anything.