“Then let’s make sure nobody has to guess what is expected.”

My contract included scheduled hours, leave, authority to raise safeguarding concerns, and the freedom to consult the child care team without Vivian’s approval.

I also insisted that Pearl’s therapists set therapeutic goals rather than the household staff.

“Will you stay?” Desmond asked.

“While I’m helping her, yes.

But I want you to understand that her progress can’t rest on one person.

She needs a father who keeps showing up even if I leave.”