He has three children.

He coaches something.

His message does four things and it does them in this order, and the order is why I have come round about him.

He apologizes.

Properly.

He names two specific things — a thing in a locker room in 2011 and the fact that he ran the group chat in tenth grade — and he does not qualify either of them and he does not once say that he was young.

He says he has thought about Julian specifically, by name, more than once, and that he had looked him up about four years ago and not found him, which is a sentence that becomes enormous about six paragraphs later.