Not in a noble way.

In a way that is genuinely inconvenient and that has made me difficult at two weddings and one funeral.

If there are eleven people at a table and one of them is not being spoken to, I am no longer able to attend to anything else, and I will go and sit with them, and I have been told by two people who love me that I do it too visibly and that it is worse for the person.

I am working on it.